I read this month’s newsletter from RoadNotTaken.com a few days ago and it made me really think. Author, Brad Glass wrote:
In a conversation over coffee recently, I listened as a woman said to me, “You know, Mary is such a close friend. We get along so well. We’ve just agreed not to talk about religion, politics, parenting, or men.” My reply, “Isn’t that interesting,” probably failed to hide my reaction to the paradox this brought up. In contemplating the conversation later on, however, I realized her comment was a common symptom of many of our conversations, along with many of our relationships, and many of our “societal structures” (workplaces, communities, families, etc.), and that perhaps it might be a good topic for exploration. So why do we avoid so many topics…?”
As I read this I thought of the many conversations avoided within my own family…I have six siblings including two Jehovah’s Witnesses and three Catholics….and one who refuses, along with me, to be labeled. Additionally there are 4 who might call themselves “conservative” and two who may be “liberals”. As for me, again, thanks but no thanks on the box; independent, free to think and question. My nieces and nephew’s beliefs and opinions also vary widely and this morning I got into a deep conversation with one of my nieces that might normally have been avoided had I not read Brad’s article.
It began with a discussion about the Pledge of Allegiance and her annoyance with the whole debate. I listened to her, understanding her point of view, and then invited her to go beyond it. I challenged her by asking if she really really believed in the words. She began to sidetrack off into explaining what she thought it stands for and I brought her back to the words…do you really “pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America…..”
Definition of ALLEGIANCE (Webster’s Dictionary)
1 a : the obligation of a feudal vassal to his liege lord b (1) : the fidelity owed by a subject or citizen to a sovereign or government (2) : the obligation of an alien to the government under which the alien resides
2: devotion or loyalty to a person, group, or cause
I asked her if she had to, would she be willing to kill me for the sake of the flag and country? OK that’s a bit much but NOW HOLD ON because I know at this point some of you are wanting to leave this conversation….thinking that I have taken a stand and you will be wanting to stuff me into a flag burning box. I LOVE MY COUNTRY and I have no gripes about the flag….I have never burned one, and I am not angry, just observant. Some of you have posted and reposted The Pledge challenging us who “have the balls” to repost it….and I have sat back silent and AVOIDING…..now I challenge you to “have the balls” to stick with this conversation.
What are you afraid of?
What do you pledge allegiance to? Do you really pledge allegiance to a government filled with corruption and greed? Do you really pledge allegiance to the pawn lobbyists and the handful of powerful players you and I never hear about that call all the shots, write all the stories and move all the players on the chess board of life? Do you really still believe that the President of the United States has any control or power? Did anyone else notice the look on Obama’s face the first week or two in office? Or do you really just pledge allegiance to freedom, to inalienable rights, to liberty and justice for all? Never mind even getting into all of that, what do you want? What do you want for yourself, for your family, for your country, for your world? How about PEACE, ABUNDANCE, FOOD, JOBS, HOMES??
Is the world outgrowing nationalism? Are you tired of nation rising against nation? Do you think that military oppression is the answer? Do you really believe that Bin Laden did it? Really? Aren’t you tired of all the BS that the media feeds you? Do you even know that it IS BS? (I have talked to soldiers who have returned from Iraq who were shocked by the media’s portrayal of what was going on.)
Don’t you really believe that people are just people, all over the world? That we all just want the same basic things….including peace? Are we becoming one world? We are on the internet! Wouldn’t it be great if we lived in peace and abundance? Do you realize that scarcity is manufactured so that the economic machine keeps going? Do you realize that we have enough food and resources to give an abundant lifestyle to all people?
You may say I’m a dreamer, but I ‘m not the only one…
My vote is to rewrite the pledge, and I do have the guts to say it….I believe in oneness, i believe in peace, I do have an independent mind capable of drawing its own conclusions through logic and observation, not through some story handed down, or force fed to me by some person, some church, some government or some anything….
“I pledge allegiance to the world, and the humanity of all the Earth, to the oneness of all people, one world, within God, Source, Universe, living in peace, with liberty and justice for all.”
It is time for a change, the clock is ticking…it is time for all of us to STOP, THINK and to take responsibility for every word, every action, every belief. And to NOT be afraid to share with the world what we really pledge allegiance to.
I Love my country but I Love the peace of humanity more.
NAMASTE
Nicki








